Whenever Zibin goes back to Cornell after a visit to Toronto I feel rather sad. I mean, of course I’d miss him mah right. But he and I both enjoy ourselves when we’re apart too, cos that’s when we get to spend time hanging out with our friends and then talk to each other about it.
There are quite a few Zibin jokes circulating out there among my friends in Toronto. I just heard of the latest one in a rather roundabout fashion and it’s tickling me pink.
Apparently, according to Yuehan, I’m suffering from PhD – Post-Henry Depression. So LAME! But so funny! Har har har!
Then of course, there’s Sherry’s version of Zibin as Monkey King returing to his èŠ±æžœå±± (Ithaca) leaving me behind to play with my other friends… or, in Jing Jing’s version, Zibin’s the ‘main wife’ or è€å¤§ and after he’s gone, I forget my loneliness with my ‘concubines’.
Well, you know, Zibin’s well aware of all these jokes and of course he’s fine with them lah… and man am I lucky right? How often do you find a hubby who encourages his wife to spend time with her ‘sorority sisters’, ‘bath-robe/tub buddies’, and ‘concubines’ in his absence? Ha ha… as long as his time with me isn’t compromised, he’s perfectly O.K.!