Ah Marie…

The OPLers went for an evening at the movies yesterday. Talk about girls’ night out… we watched Marie Antoinette and all the frills and lace and gowns and jewellery on the big screen made me feel so… girly. I’m grateful to Wanting for telling us before the movie began that she’s heard that the movie’s […]

Mother & Son

Zibin and I were talking to his mom on Skype earlier. ********* ZB Mom: (to ZB) “你的脸比较少肉了.” ZB: “是啦, 你的脸最多肉的吗.” ZB Mom: (to me) “这个孩子很坏. 牙尖嘴利.” ZB: “是谁养的?子(养)不教父之过 leh.” ZB Mom: “父在外面!” ZB: “那是财政部长.” ZB Mom: “Aiyah, 你脸真的瘦了.” ZB: “你眼睛小啦. 所以看我的脸瘦. 我眼睛大所以看你的脸胖. 谁叫你生我的眼睛这么大.” ZB Mom: *to me* “Eh, 子彬生下来的时候很丑的 leh.” ZB: *eyes widen in indignation* ZB Mom: (goes on […]

Compassion

Something I didn’t know… that the Latin root of the word ‘compassion’ means “to bear with” or “to suffer with” (com + pati). Nouwen writes that, “to live with compassion means to enter others’ dark moments. It is to walk into places of pain, not to flinch or look away when another agonizes. It means […]