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Mother & Son

Zibin and I were talking to his mom on Skype earlier. ********* ZB Mom: (to ZB) “你的脸比较少肉了.” ZB: “是啦, 你的脸最多肉的吗.” ZB Mom: (to me) “这个孩子很坏. 牙尖嘴利.” ZB: “是谁养的?子(养)不教父之过 leh.” ZB Mom: “父在外面!” ZB: “那是财政部长.” ZB Mom: “Aiyah, 你脸真的瘦了.” ZB: “你眼睛小啦. 所以看我的脸瘦. 我眼睛大所以看你的脸胖. 谁叫你生我的眼睛这么大.” ZB Mom: *to me* “Eh, 子彬生下来的时候很丑的 leh.” ZB: *eyes widen in indignation* ZB Mom: (goes on […]

Compassion

Something I didn’t know… that the Latin root of the word ‘compassion’ means “to bear with” or “to suffer with” (com + pati). Nouwen writes that, “to live with compassion means to enter others’ dark moments. It is to walk into places of pain, not to flinch or look away when another agonizes. It means […]

Community

It’s been an extremely busy week leading up to GSCOPE. And now it’s come and gone, after a year of on-and-off preparations, leaving me to muse at how transient time is. During the week, and especially during the two days of the conference, an entire gamut of thoughts and feelings went through me. The stakes […]

Thanksgiving

For the air I breathe, For the food I eat, For restful sleep and the love of friends, I give thanks. *************** It’s Thanksgiving weekend in Canada. And I have so many things to thank God for. Beautiful days with crisp cool air and azure blue skies that keep me gazing up. The joy of […]

Frazzled

Suddenly, in the space of just 2 days, a ton of new things have descended upon me to do. And maybe there really is no reason for me to get stressed (yet), but for some reason, I am super jumpy today. And I don’t know why, but I keep having this image of Ivy, the […]

E-mail Exchange

Been following your blog dear, somehow must say I half-envy you for being so introspective. Yet on the other hand, it seems so far from the daily hustle and bustle I face. Especially with the complicated human relationships I see at work every day…sigh. Really not easy to manage people’s expectations. You remember the chinese […]