Broken Trust

Having a trust broken is one of the most painful experiences. I’m sure we’ve all been on both sides of the fence – of the one breaking the trust, as well as the one being deceived. How do we react? How do we deal with it? When we’re the one being deceived, righteous indignation, hurt […]

Friendship Relic

Many, many years ago, my little friend Yinwei and I bought ourselves a pair of Mickey & Minnie journals to write each other in. We would pen down our thoughts, make silly (sometimes very nice) drawings, wrote stories, gossiped, poured out our hearts… all within the confines of its cartoony covers. We’d exchange journals and […]

Indonesia Sedap!

Punchlines Quip #1 Me to Uncle Ming: 你真的很会介绍吃的! Uncle Ming:因为你喜欢吃, 所以才介绍吃的给你。不是吃的你没有兴趣! Quite funny since just a day earlier Zibin told me that Uncle Ming must think I really love eating since he’s always asking me to taste this and that. Ha ha… it’s really that obvious huh? This uncle’s been getting me to taste different […]

Off to Jakarta

Am going off to Jakarta for the weekend to celebrate my grandmother’s 80th birthday. It should be fun cos it’s the whole family going together this time. John hasn’t been there in years. It will be Cathy’s first visit to my relatives’ homes in Indonesia, and it will be both Zibin and Cathy’s first time […]

Perspective

Two men looked out from prison bars One sees mud, the other sees stars. – Frederick Langbridge We live in the same world. Do you see doom everywhere, destruction, evil, mayhem? Or do you see love, hope, forgiveness, triumph and joy? Is it what is ‘out there’ or what is in you that makes you […]

iHome

One of our new electronic acquisitions for the matrimonial home. It all started when Zibin said he needed an alarm clock. But then, as Chandler and Joey would put it, “we took it to the NEXT LEVEL”. And so now we’ve got an alarm clock, radio and iPod speaker system and charger in one. You […]